Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Worth More

In a culture with high expectations that we all too often fall short of, it can be easy to doubt your value. The unrealistic ideal of perfection is displayed, demanded, and striven for at almost any cost. People are destroying themselves for the sake of being called beautiful by a world that really doesn’t care.
I don’t know about you, but I find that incredibly sad.
The pressure is everywhere. Be thinner, girl; diet, diet, diet. Shed those pounds, get rid of that muffin top. Wear tight jeans, show off those legs. Dip your neckline a little lower, show more skin; guys only want sexy. Paint yourself with makeup; do absolutely anything and everything you can to be beautiful
Girls aren’t the only ones under pressure. Society isn’t too kind to guys either. Get a job, get a car, get a girl, workout, work harder; go to college and make something of yourself.
In today's culture, all that seems to matter is looking good and living good. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with wanting a good body and a good career. These are worthwhile things to pursue. But when it becomes an obsession - when these things begin to define your worth and who you are - that's a problem.
I know what it’s like to feel worthless; I’ve been there. And no matter how many times my family and friends would tell me that I was beautiful, talented, worthwhile, etc., I never felt it. All I felt was ugly, empty, and broken.
But there was one thing that got through to me. One simple, amazing truth that convinced me of my worth. It was this:
I was crafted by the hand of God, in His image, for His purpose.
And that makes me infinitely valuable.
You don’t need anyone or anything to define your worth aside from God.
The God of the universe took the time to make you with His own hands. What’s more, He died so that you could live with Him in paradise for all eternity. What more do you need?
You don’t need to submit to the world’s image to be beautiful.
You were created in the image of the almighty God; how can you be anything less than gorgeous? Just be who you are. It truly is the heart of a person that makes them beautiful.
You don’t need to stress about finding your ‘purpose’.
God doesn’t make mistakes. He chose to make you, to write you into His story, and He had a reason for doing so. Even if you don’t know what your purpose is yet, never doubt His plan for your life. You were made for a purpose, and you won’t die until you complete the very thing He made you to do.

So what if you have a muffin-top? That doesn’t make you any less beautiful.
So what if you don’t have well-defined abs? Strength of heart is so much more admirable.
So what if you can’t afford college? You don’t need a degree to make a difference.
Your worth is not in your appearance. Your worth is not in your personality, talents, beliefs, or anything else.
Your worth is in the very fact that you exist, because you were made and loved by God.
Don’t fall prey to the lies that society is trying to feed you. You are beautiful – no matter your body type, your laugh, your unique giftings, or any of the other things that make up who you are. God created you for a purpose, and He loves you desperately.

You are worth so much more than the world’s standard of beauty. Never forget that. <3



  1. This is so beautiful. Honestly it made me so happy read. This is such an important lesson to learn and so many people need to hear this. Thank you. I myself struggle a lot with self image and sometimes its hard to remember that God make us just as we are.

    I found your blog via a thread on NaNoWriMo and I love your blog. you're just a beautiful person inside and out and I read your story (and liked Josh's facebook page of course.) and I wanted to encourage you to keep pressing on. God can heal all hurts. He wants so much more for you than sadness and depression. He can bring you out of anything. He has brought you this far, He's not leaving you now.

    God bless you and good luck with NaNo!

  2. Faith,

    I am so glad that you were blessed! It means so much to me to hear that. :)

    Thank you for the encouragement. It has been a difficult journey, but through it all, God has always proven Himself faithful, and I trust in His grace to lead me home. I read your post on NaNo - you have been through a lot of difficulty as well. Same goes to you, girl - God is always with you. Never lose heart. <3

    Thanks! Good luck to you too! :)

    God bless,


  3. Thank you so much, Riah. Somebody from NaNo directed me here, and I've been so blessed.


    1. I'm so glad that you were blessed, Caroline. :)